• Why does it feel heavy ?
pride A husband named Gaurav says: "Even saying 'I was wrong' makes the tongue heavy because our ego comes in." Even if we have too much pride, it is very difficult to admit that we too were wrong .
• point of view :-
You say, it is only right to apologize if I have started the quarrel. A wife named Rupali says: “When I am wrong, I do not feel like saying, 'I am wrong, forgive me.' But when we both put each other down When speaking, however, it is difficult to take the initiative to ask for forgiveness. I mean, why should I be the one to apologize first when we're both at fault?' If you feel that it is entirely your partner's fault, then it is right for you not to ask for forgiveness. "When you truly believe it's not your fault and don't apologize, you prove you're innocent. rearing Maybe you grew up in a family where you never said, 'I'm sorryHave not heard saying 'do it'. Therefore, you will find it difficult to admit your mistakes easily. Since you never asked for forgiveness as a child, you may not have the habit of apologizing sincerely when you grow up.
• Try this :-
Your Think of a mate. Think about how you felt when someone said, 'I'm sorry, I made a mistake'. Then let your partner experience the same pleasure. Even if it's not your fault, he or she may feel bad for your partner or because of something you saidYou can apologize to him/her for being hurt. There is a lot of power in these three words. A wound on the mind can be healed by these words.
• Save your marriage instead of proving it is win-lose :-
Instead of thinking that asking for forgiveness is defeating you, think of it as saving your marriage. The Bible verse Proverbs 18:19 says that "it is harder to understand an offended person than to conquer a strong city." While asking for forgiveness may seem difficult to maintain peace in a stressful environment, it is not impossible. Also you JevWhen you take the initiative in apologizing, the argument doesn't get any hotter. In short, instead of trying to prove a winner or a loser between the two of you, you save your marriage. -
• Apologize immediately :-
It is true that it is not easy to ask for forgiveness when it is not all your fault. But, just because your partner was at fault, doesn't mean you have to be mean too. So, don't hesitate to ask for forgiveness, thinking that your arguments will gradually disappear. If you take the initiative in asking for forgiveness, tomorrow your partner will also be forgiven if there is an argument Will take the initiative in asking. The more you take the initiative in asking for forgiveness, the easier it will be to ask for forgiveness next time.
• When you ask for forgiveness, ask with a sincere heart. :-
your Making excuses for behavior is not apologizing. Also, when asking for forgiveness, ask for it with a sincere heart, not sarcastically. "Okay okay, I'm sorry, but there was no need to feel so bad!" This speech cannot be called an apology at all. No matter how much you think what you say is right, your behavior does Mind your partner has been hurt Accept this thing.
• Accept the fact that you will always make mistakes.
Humbly admit that we all make mistakes. At some point you may feel that you were not wrong at all. So always remember one thing. That is, your side of what happened between the two of you is not necessarily 100 percent correct. “The man who speaks first always thinks he is right, until someone comes along and tells himNo questions asked. Having the right attitude about yourself and your mistakes will make it easier for you to ask for forgiveness.
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